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“What’s stealing your joy?”

At age twenty-six, I was hired, miraculously, as the head women’s volleyball coach at NC State University in Raleigh, NC.  During the interview, the Athletic Director asked repeatedly if I knew what I was getting into (I didn’t).  Would I … Continue reading

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“Take A Chance On Me.”

It had been a long day. I was over it. My head was down as I scraped remnants of beef tacos into the overflowing trash at 9pm on a school night. I know I asked one of those boys to take … Continue reading

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“Thoughts on Muffin Tops and Muumuus”

Summer is almost here. Can I hear an “Amen!”? I love everything about summertime, except that inevitable afternoon when I’ll have no choice but to pull down the blue Tupperware storage bin, and cringe through past seasons of stretched-out and … Continue reading

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“Nineteen ways to be amazing, and counting…”

Friendship has been on my mind lately. Specifically, “What does it look like to be a friend?” Much of my life I’ve hoped to do amazing things for God.  By this I mean, I’ve readied myself to do amazing things in … Continue reading

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“I can’t believe in a God that sends people to hell…”

“I just can’t believe in a God that sends people to hell.” she said. It makes me sad to see God so misunderstood, but I hear it often as a reason for why people reject God, the church, and the … Continue reading

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(For my sons) “What kind of men will they be?”

I’ve been married to one man for almost twenty-one years.   This officially qualifies him for sainthood, in everyone’s opinion.  I’ve told him that if I die first, I’d be happy for him to marry someone with a little less … Continue reading

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You’re never too far gone…

Are there any moments or periods of time in your past that make you physically cringe? I’ve been party to situations and conversations that I work hard to never think about, because the memories bring shame.  When I do unwillingly … Continue reading

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“Worn out, stressed out, couldn’t care less…”

A. What is the current state of your body, according to you?  It’s doing it’s job, and for that I am thankful. It’s worn out and stressed out, but I’m just too busy to care for it better. It’s a disappointment, … Continue reading

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You’re sending us where??

Let’s not be so skittish, sheep.  No need to huddle up and wring our hands. Behold, I am sending you out as sheep in the midst of wolves, so be wise as serpents and innocent as doves. Our Good Shepherd has told … Continue reading

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How to be an idol…

My trip to the library last week rewarded me with this book. I told a friend that I was about to start reading a book with the title ‘How To Be Idle’ and there was a long and highly awkward … Continue reading

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